OCO canceling OCO

I am not sure how I can ask this question, so I hope you guys get it.
The idea i have is to active 2 orders: Buy Stop, and Sell Stop.
Each order will have an OCO attached to it, but the minute one of the stops gets triggered with the OCO, the other OCO that is attached to the other stop (non triggered) will get cancelled. In the sum total, I want to stay with one OCO.

What software allows that and how is it done?

Rod